…..Actually not. Sadly enough that every guild has that one member that thinks they are special and deserves special treatment. They have to be the center of attention and constantly whine when things aren’t “fair” to them. Unfortunately, we had that in our guild… until a few stepped up and did something about it finally.
We had a paladin healer in our guild, she was a younger girl… since in high school. She was an ok healer I must admit. When she came to the guild I had already had negative thoughts on her. I remembered her going to heal for us and leaving us in the middle of an instance because her mother was throwing a hissy fit only to come back 10 minutes later and cuss everyone out because we couldn’t group back up and she was now saved to an instance she didn’t complete.
Anyways, she bitches because she can’t raid as long as the other guild members because she’s in school and it’s not fair to her about her missing out on DKP and everyone will always out bid her and how is she supposed to get geared when she doesn’t have any DKP and blah blah blah whine whine whine.
Can you tell I don’t like her?
We told her to just come for as long as you can. We only have about 3 or 4 pally healers so after a few repeated bosses she’d be able to nab the gear easily if she didn’t have the DKP for it. We understand she has a life outside of Wow and tried to accomidate her. The hubby even passed on two items that were upgrades for him and she won them.
The one thing that drives me nuts is her constant bitching that she can’t keep up in the healing because she goes OOM and whines when the hubby heals and never goes OOM and she’s got more of a mana pool than him. Shenever understood how he over healed more, healed more and never went OOM. I tried to explain to her to check his spec to hers, check for correct gear, check for glyphs, etc. I TRIED TO BE NICE.
LAST STRAW: We were in a middle of a boss fight and she was the 2nd healer on the main tank with a druid healer. (The hubby went DPS for awhile.) SHE GOT UP and LEFT the battle to go god knows where in the middle of the battle. From the records posted in the raid chat from the healing logs, she didn’t heal him from 59% to dead, only the druid healer did. She even said in raid chat she got up….. but nevertheless we wiped.
So I made a comment to the raid leader about the fact she left unannounced during the boss fight for something stupid and something needed to be said. What was done? She had DKP taken away from her, 20 DKP. She went off in vent and cussed up a storm. A few people told her why it was happening and that it was a guild rule and a raid rule to not leave in a boss fight while you’re alive, etc. etc.
The GM gave her an out and she cussed him out apparently, thus resulting in….. HER GUILD KICK! Woot! No more bitching.
Erm, so sad to see her go…… I meant. Really. Heh.
/sigh
I understand life and things happen.. but deal with it without whining, bitching and cussing everyone else out. I think you guys will be better off without her.
When I was in my old raiding guild, sure, it sucked that I couldn’t be available for as many raids and had less DKP. Oh well. I signed up for what I could go to. Sometimes I’d ask if I could be included in a raid that I knew I’d be a little late to… they often would be alright with my absence during trash as long as I got home and logged in before they reached the first boss.
Did I cuss them out and whine? No. Did I whine at my husband about my scheduling not matching well, sure, but I didn’t do it in game or blame them.
But, hey, my lack of DKP wasn’t really a problem because the other warlocks got their gear before me.
But yeah, I can tell you are really upset… /comfort You’ll be fine!
lol
@Syrana
The funny part was, she was the highest DKP holder in the guild.
Lol, I think EVERY guild has at least one of these people.